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A Woman's Guide to the Language of Success

New Language and Leadership Skills for Women New

Language for Women Who Lead

Professional Communication Skills
   for Secretaries, Administrative Aides

Presentation Skills for Women
Presentation Skills for Senior Level
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A Woman's Guide to the Language of Success: Communicating with Confidence and Power
Learn the language of success. Shed the language of weakness. Emulate a strong female model: Charlotte of Charlotte's Web. Learn to craft a professional language style that works in business. Topics include weak and powerful grammar, words, precision listening, reading as empowerment, clear speaking, and body language. Receive Phyllis Mindell's book, How to Say It for Women. (1 day)

Learn how to:

  • Acquire the grammar of power
  • Say "no" kindly and powerfully
  • Listen instrumentally
  • Drop the grammar of weakness
  • Control weak, little girl "I" statements
  • Unlearn weak gestures and body language
  • Create and use "crib sheets" for difficult situations
  • Handle inappropriate behaviors
  • Practice powerful language in discussions with other women

Language and Leadership Skills for Women

Women confront complex issues around language, leadership, and power . The ambiguities and complexities women face in the twentieth century combine with the ambiguities and complexities all leaders face to produce knotty dilemmas for this generation of women leaders. This two day custom seminar deals forthrightly with the issues and proposes practical solutions for women to transform their language so as to lead humanely, powerfully, and productively. We assert that leadership neither demands that women be "nice" nor that women be like men. Nor does leadership require a uniform style. Rather, women must find ways to lead that accommodate their individual world views, their ethical principles, and their singular talents.

    History has shown that language comprises the common thread unifying successful leaders in all generations, in all countries, in all disciplines. Neither competence nor kindness nor ethics nor desire nor generosity of spirit succeed unless wedded to practical communication skills, strategies, and techniques. This seminar delves in depth into those skills and techniques, and tailors them to each woman's unique situation and style. 

Learn How To (a sampling) 

  •   Assess your leadership level in a variety of attributes

  •   Use and benefit from The Leadership Survey

  •    Establish credibility in challenging, difficult and hostile situations

  •    Shed weak language forms, words, and gestures

  •    Acquire and use powerful language forms in speaking and writing

  •    Listen deeply and instrumentally

  •    Plan speeches, presentations, and meetings

  •    Deliver major speeches and presentations

  •    Run successful meetings and teams

  •    Select a leadership style that matches your values and principles

  •    Adapt to various leadership situations

  •     Lead during times of stress and change

  •     Read strategically, gather information, and craft a community of   readers

  •     Foster leadership in others

  •     Determine and pursue other essential leadership attributes

  •     Have peers and reports complete The Leadership Survey and analyze the results 

Materials        Each participant receives a full complement of essential resources, including Dr. Phyllis Mindell's best-selling book, How To Say It for Women, The Leadership Survey, and  selected articles that address central questions of women in leadership. Continental breakfast and luncheon are also included.

Who Should Enroll    We accept a small group of women in or preparing for senior positions in industry, business, the professions, academia, and the nonprofit sector. Their domain expertise is established; now they seek to gain power to inspire a shared vision, lead teams and companies, foster employee growth, deliver major speeches and presentations, establish credibility up and down the hierarchy, and serve successfully on a larger stage. They also aim to overcome remaining weaknesses and obstacles. 

How It Works    This compressed seminar starts before and continues after the actual sessions. Upon enrollment, you receive a questionnaire and have a phone interview to establish your interests and goals. You're invited to submit writing samples, videotapes, and other information that sheds light on your current skills and issues.

Next, Dr. Mindell shapes the seminar content to the participants. During the program, you learn both general principles and practical applications, gain skills to handle both big ideas and every day problems, and explore private issues in complete confidence. You get plenty of practice under the watchful eyes and listening ears of instructor and peers.

 

Language for Women Who Lead: A Workshop for Executives and Managers
Dr. Mindell tailors this workshop to clients' interests. Explore advanced issues in speech, writing, and reading: communication styles, sentence forms, vocabulary choices, gestures, body politics, presentations, persuasion, policy-making, and other topics. Participants are invited to submit written pieces or videotapes for pre- and post-seminar critiques. (1 day + follow-up)

Learn how to:

  • Expand repertoire of powerful verbal and nonverbal skills
  • Avoid inappropriate aggressiveness
  • Gain power while retaining femininity, integrity
  • Prepare for major leadership position
  • Learn and apply the Well-Read, Janus principles

 

Professional Language Skills for Secretaries and Support Staff
Modern secretaries and support staff face daunting concerns. They must establish a respected professional presence, gain the confidence and skills to speak effectively on the phone and in person; write and edit for others; use e-mail and voice mail efficiently. Learn to accomplish all these and other aspects of professional communications. (1 day)

Learn how to:

  • Find ways to communicate effectively at all levels
  • Use grammar as a tool of self-confidence
  • Say "no" graciously and strongly
  • Shed weak body language
  • Listen instrumentally
  • Convey confidence in all situations


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Presentation Skills for Women
Women hesitate to present: they're too shy, they're edgy about appearance, they were taught to keep quiet, they get too nervous. Yet presentation skills stand high on the list of career tools: women must learn to present well. Learn to overcome fear and anxiety, prepare and time every sit-down or stand-up presentation, gain confidence, shed weak language and gestures, style yourself for success, open and close strongly, and handle difficult audiences. See yourself as others see you, on videotape with supportive critiques and consultations. (3 days)

Learn how to:

  • Overcome reticence, fear, and anxiety
  • Benefit from consultations with film director, language specialist, stylist
  • Flower in a safe, supportive, delightful setting
  • Plan and control timing, language, and rhetoric
  • Use powerful, confident body language
  • Deliver varied talks in formal and informal settings

Presentation Skills for Senior Level Women
Skilled presenters learn to use language to convey a powerful, humane female persona, lead with charisma, motivate others, foster community and morale, inspire a shared vision, gain trust. Through extensive videotaping and individual consultations, you'll see yourself as others see you, deliver strong and kind critiques, shape a powerful image, craft talks and speeches that work for varied audiences, speak with and without scripts, design clear visuals, break through individual barriers. (2 days)

Learn how to:

  • Style yourself for leadership and success
  • Open and end major talks and speeches
  • Persuade others to follow you
  • Inspire a shared vision
  • Add powerful rhetoric, gestures, and body language